Divorce is hard, particularly when you have children. Going through a custody dispute can be one of the most stressful things you and your children will experience. We all know that we need to watch what we say and do to our ex and children during this process. A few thoughtless words to a child or a co-parent can harm your relationship with your children and end up in front of a judge. But it's also important to be aware of your behavior online. In this article, we'll touch on some of the things you should avoid online while you're going through a custody dispute.

1. Alienation of Affection

During a custody case, the judge will want to ensure that both parents will facilitate their child's relationship with the other parent. If you post things on social media or text your ex about how you plan to keep them from the children, that will raise a red flag with the family court. 

2. Threats, Stalking, or Abuse

It's far too easy to get into arguments via email, text, or messenger. Keep in mind that making threats, using abusive language, or stalking your ex online will undoubtedly end up before a judge. Don't write anything online or in a message that you wouldn't say directly to a judge.

3. Criticizing Your Ex

Criticizing your ex via social media, text, or email can show up as evidence in a custody dispute. A judge won't want to give custody, whether full or joint, to a parent who heaps abuse and criticism on their ex-partner. If you have some frustrations to air, don't leave it on social media for everyone to see. 

4. Documenting Risky or Illegal Behavior

Posting photo or video evidence of your own risk or illegal behavior is probably the best thing you can do to torpedo your custody case. If you go out barhopping with friends, take drugs, or decide to engage in some light criminal activity, don't post it on TikTok, Snapchat, Facebook, or Instagram. Going viral isn't worth losing custody of your children.

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